“So I fucked up, I failed I ‘missed’ the opportunity to transcend this specific point”
Points to ponder by B: “Do not define self by fuckups and failures”
Ok this I see is a trap as well failure as a self- definition point which contains of thoughts like: “I am a failure” ; “I always fuck up!”
Self Corrective statements:
When I fail I realize who I am, I’m not defined through it.
When I Fuck up I allow myself to realize how I exist, I’m not defined by it.